替别人着想

替别人着想，虽然只有区区几个字，但是要真正地实施起来却并非易事。因为，替自己着想容易，而替别人着想却需要具有慈悲的关爱之心才行。xml:namespace prefix = o ns = “urn:schemas-microsoft-com🏢office” /?

替别人着想，就是要设身处地地为别人着想，表现的是一种发自内心的善良和仁爱。

能否“替别人着想”，经常体现在日常生活的细微之处。马路上有一块石头，肯替别人着想，就会随手将它拿到一边，免得行人被绊，或汽车碰到时伤人。进出玻璃弹簧门，在推门之后，看看后面有无人跟进，如有则挡一挡门，免得后来人被撞。坐电梯时，发现有人赶过来，不妨按住开门键，等等后上的人……这些都是举手之劳的小事，但往往从这些小事上，就能看出你是否肯替别人着想。

替别人着想，不仅要有善良和仁爱，而且还要时时想到别人的处境和尊严，要给别人留面子。

晋朝的孙晷看见有人偷割自己家的麦子，不仅不上前制止，反而躲起来。刚一开始读只想笑，要是换作我是孙晷，看见坏人就应该冲上去，仔细想想弄懂，原来这里面蕴藏着"替别人着想"的人生哲理。

替别人着想，就是当别人处于尴尬境地时，要给人打圆场，给人台阶下，保护了别人的尊严，自己也获得了人格的升华。

能为别人设想的人，永远不会寂寞。凡是能站在别人的角度为他人着想，就是慈悲。“肯替别人着想”的细心、耐心、关心、爱心和尊重，可以换来别人的信任和认同。

请从今天开始，学习“为别人着想”。因为替别人着想，就是替自己着想。

（文/七年4班 摄影/靳玉喆）

Being considerate to others is a generosity,a fraternity and a boundary.

Being considerate can be done with only a few words,but it’s difficult for us to do it continuously.You need to have a keen heart.

Being considerate to others,always embody in little things.For example,there’s a stone on the road,if you consider others,you will pick it up to make safe.

When you push the door,you should wait for others before you close it.

When you take lift,you should wait for others until they get into it.

These are all small things,but we can see whether you are think of others or not.

If you are considerate towards others,you will never be lonely.you can get other’s trust and respct.

Dear friends,let’s learn to do it from now on.Being considerate of people is also being thoughtful of yourself.

Thank you for listening.